🪷 Day 2 ~
Chaitra Navratri series
☯️ Male & Female Energies - Inner Tantra
You are made of male and female energies.
Your mind is the male aspect, father, the spark, the thought.
Your body is the female aspect, mother as it comes from mother, the body, the energy.
Relationship between your mind and body defines all your relations, actions and movements of Life and its consequences.
TOXIC RELATION OF MALE FEMALE.
A toxic relation is when there is manipulation and misuse for gratification and selfishness.
Your mind and body have a toxic relation. Ego mind uses the body for its desires, gratifications, greed and fears.
Mind – which is the child of the mother body, like the leaves of a tree – becomes the boss. It uses the body at the whim of its thoughts, impulses and gratification. From eating, sleeping, working, making money, doing meditation, yoga et cetera – all are games of the mind played with unfairness on the ground of the body by pushing it to get what ego wants. Bad habits, indulgences, over working, stagnation, etc. are all vices of the mind which results in damaging the body.
Hence, the relationship between your inner male female, father and mother, becomes toxic. This toxicity in your micro cosmos is reflected in your relations, in your work, in your relation with Life. No relation and no work or venture can be successful and organic if your inner cosmos, the only cosmos, has its male female relating not as friends and lovers but manipulators.
When body is overused it stops cooperating, falling sick or stagnating and brings your plans to halt. This is your body responding to your misuse. You feel frustrated at the body and suffer psychologically.
You go to a doctor or therapist or guru to learn how to again manipulate your system back to health so you can misuse it again. You call it treatment, healing, meditation but by your intention it's slowly killing your only faithful partner and lover – your own body. Rest comes and goes. She is always with you, takes your shit, gives you signals to cooperate and take care. But you know nothing of your intimate partner.
Somebodyelse, a doctor, a healer or a guru knows about it – yet by nature, you are supposed to know everything about it.
Why is it so? Because the mind, instead of serving the body, becomes the manipulator, which is the social training in our culture. Your mind is an outside influence on the body.
Healthy relation is when the mind connects with and listens to the body. Body, being connected to the cosmic wisdom, guides the mind through the language of intuition. But the mind is far from intuition, clouded and lost into thoughts of past, present and future.
Whereas the body is live, electric, cosmos, now.
Real yoga, union, meeting of male female, the orgasmic state of now, cosmos, samadhi, is when your dualities merge into forming oneness inside, then you experience oneness with the cosmos.
In relationships, if your relation with body is that of misuse, you will only attract such minds who will also relate to you through manipulation, appearing romantic but in reality manipulative.
Have you ever wondered why your relations fail? Why does your life not satisfy you? Why is there no juice? Because your relation with this Life and cosmos is of manipulation and misuse so Life loses its flow, it becomes stagnant, frustrating and dull.
All your Life actions and relations are based in this micro cosmic disaster within. Your negative positives do not come together to create light and support Life. They contradict each other to destroy each other.
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