#subscriberquestion
My man said that I should swallow his sperm — otherwise I "don't love him enough."
I don't swallow! Naturally, he gets offended...
And now, is it my fault that I have a different taste, boundaries, and my own body?
Darlings, it's no secret that many women are truly sick of the taste of male sperm...
Not because "something is wrong" with them, but because:
— sperm has a special taste, smell, consistency
— some have hypersensitivity, some have a psychological block
— and some just don't want to.
And you know what?
This is absolutely normal!
But here's what's not normal:
— When a man perceives swallowing his sperm as a test of love.
— When a woman's mouth becomes part of the male ego.
— When a woman is afraid to refuse, because "he'll get offended" or "he'll leave me".
My loves, this is no longer about sex...
This is about pressure!
After all, oral practices are really, first and foremost, about trust, arousal, taste and play.
And not about:
"Listen, all my exes knew how to swallow and did, why can't you?"
An orgasm, my loves, is not a receipt for which you are obliged to "work off" something!
You don't swallow sperm?
You are not frigid!
You are, first and foremost, a human being...
With your own taste.
With your own boundaries.
With the right to say "No!".
And if a partner puts the question of love to him point-blank just because of swallowing sperm, perhaps he confuses sexual relations with total control.
Think about it!
